Last night the most hilarious thing happened. My has siblings were once again watching karoke on TV when I realized I reconized the tune to a song. It was a Black Eyed Peas song, My Humps. So, I told them, I know this song in English. Well, they started talking and the next thing I know is that my host sister has switched the TV sound over to the stereo surround sound and has gotten out a microphone and plugged it in. She then restarts the song and tells me to sing in English! Of course I blush and say no. But my host mom and siblings think this is abosolutly the funniest thing they have ever seen, so they are just rolling with laughter. I must say, it was quite humerous. I think it was the first time I have laughed, I mean my-side-hurts-tears-in-my-eyes-laughed, since I have been here.
I caught another mouse in my room. So that's number three.
It's starting to get warm here again during the day. It wouldn't be so bad except for the humitity and lack of rain. And the fact that I live on a dirt road where there are just clouds of dust every afternoon.
A glimpse into my three years serving with Mennonite Central Committee in Cambodia, transitioning to America, and a new adventure in Philadelphia.
Thursday, January 04, 2007
Tuesday, January 02, 2007
Super Squeakers (I and II) is dead. (I named the mouse living in my room.) But as it turns out, there were two mice, now both nicely disposed of. I thought my 17 year old host brother was going to scream when I walked out of the house this morning. But, now I can sleep in peace! :)
Cambodian youth culture is still something I can't understand. Cambodians love karoke. Just a minute ago, a kid in another part of the internet shop was screaming one of the karoke songs at the top of his lungs. Argh! But I must say Top Teen, the Cambodian version of American Idol, is quite interesting. Each singer has backup dancers, which can't stay or beat or together, but sometimes I am surprised. The dancing consists of waving your arms and twirling in circles, while the main singer stands rigid on the center star. But prehaps I have just been desensitized by American pop culture. Their outfits are quite another thing. One girl was wearing black leggins, army boots, striped jumper straps on her t-shirt that had huge mickey mouse faces around the bottom. To top it all off, her hair was pulled into a ponytail on top of her head and surrounded by a silver tiara. Maybe for Asians, she was in style; matching is not their strong point.
Speaking of clothing, I ordered a dress to be made for Seiha's wedding next weekend. My host mother and sister went with me to the market on Sunday. Cambodians love bright colors and try to stick as many sequins and bows and frilly stuff as humanly possible on one dress. I managed to get a lavender that isn't so bright for the top with only a little bit of embroidery around the neckline and bottom. The bottom is the traditional Khmer silk, which is a variation of a diamond pattern. The first bodice I chose had an empire waist and cap sleeves which my host mother quickly told me I couldn't get because my chest is too big. It's kinda humorous, I have never considered myself large.
Moving on, my garden is doing well. The corn, beans, califlower, and cabbage have sprouted. I think there may be something wrong with the lettuce as it has not come up yet. I am quite pleased despite the rocky start.
For New Years, I didn't do anything special, but Barb, one of the expats living in Prey Veng, invited us over for a BBQ Sunday evening. It was divine! She has western food, including potato salad. I definately like the Khmer food, but sometimes, you just want to eat potatoes or a raw cucumbers, instead of rice. But my family doesn't understand that as they have begun to slowly increase my rice portion once again.
Cambodian youth culture is still something I can't understand. Cambodians love karoke. Just a minute ago, a kid in another part of the internet shop was screaming one of the karoke songs at the top of his lungs. Argh! But I must say Top Teen, the Cambodian version of American Idol, is quite interesting. Each singer has backup dancers, which can't stay or beat or together, but sometimes I am surprised. The dancing consists of waving your arms and twirling in circles, while the main singer stands rigid on the center star. But prehaps I have just been desensitized by American pop culture. Their outfits are quite another thing. One girl was wearing black leggins, army boots, striped jumper straps on her t-shirt that had huge mickey mouse faces around the bottom. To top it all off, her hair was pulled into a ponytail on top of her head and surrounded by a silver tiara. Maybe for Asians, she was in style; matching is not their strong point.
Speaking of clothing, I ordered a dress to be made for Seiha's wedding next weekend. My host mother and sister went with me to the market on Sunday. Cambodians love bright colors and try to stick as many sequins and bows and frilly stuff as humanly possible on one dress. I managed to get a lavender that isn't so bright for the top with only a little bit of embroidery around the neckline and bottom. The bottom is the traditional Khmer silk, which is a variation of a diamond pattern. The first bodice I chose had an empire waist and cap sleeves which my host mother quickly told me I couldn't get because my chest is too big. It's kinda humorous, I have never considered myself large.
Moving on, my garden is doing well. The corn, beans, califlower, and cabbage have sprouted. I think there may be something wrong with the lettuce as it has not come up yet. I am quite pleased despite the rocky start.
For New Years, I didn't do anything special, but Barb, one of the expats living in Prey Veng, invited us over for a BBQ Sunday evening. It was divine! She has western food, including potato salad. I definately like the Khmer food, but sometimes, you just want to eat potatoes or a raw cucumbers, instead of rice. But my family doesn't understand that as they have begun to slowly increase my rice portion once again.
Monday, December 25, 2006
Kep and Christmas
The past week has held several exciting and eventful experiences. Last week when I returned to Prey Veng, I decided to start a garden. Sounds crazy right? Planting a garden in December? The rainy season is over and November is the beginning of the regular planting season, so I am slightly behind. Buntha, my host father, said I could have a plot of land between the mango trees in the backyard, so Monday afternoon I started digging. I asked my host mother for some cow manure, and after trying to explain what that was, the nephew came back with a sackful. However, once he saw what I had started, he said the ground was too hard for me to dig myself and proceded to rehoe what I had accomplished. So my garden has turned into a community project. The main reason I wanted to grow vegetables is to have something else to do and contribute to my family in some productive manner. Tomorrow I will plant corn, green beans, cabbage, lettuce, and califlower. Larry told me those tend to grow the best here.
Thursday Charles and I returned to Phnom Penh. I worked on my finacial report all day. Friday the single MCCers went to Kep on a singles retreat. Kep was a popular resort town on the coast from the colonials days until Pol Pot (1920s-1960/70s). While the old cement mansions and beach houses are still present, the houses are more ruins than habitable structures. But the ghost town feeling is not everywhere; the crab market is flourishing, there are boat rides to several islands in the bay, and several pepper farms and caves to visit. We stayed at a lovely resort where we stayed in private bungalows and had a fantastic view of the beach from the resturant. Overall, the weekend was very relaxing and fun with a healthy dose of pranks thrown in. And I can say I spent Christmas Eve at the beach, which in my opinion is much better than the VA or PA cold.
Christmas was nice, thought it felt more like a summer picnic with turkey. The MCCers, along with the Saudermans (China MCCers) and the Graber-Millers met at the Groff's house for the typical Christmas dinner-turkey, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, stuffing, etc. Andrea and I made pies for dessert- apple, pumpkin and coconut cream. After the meal, I got a chance to talk to Keith Graber-Miller who is head of the Goshen SST group coming next month. I put in a good word for them to send a student to Prey Veng for the six weeks the students will be working in the proviences. :) After a couple hours of talking, a volleyball game was started, though it was interesting to dodge the Cambodians who came over to jump on the Groff's trampoline. Later we played Oggle.
The most memorable part of the weekend was when I decided to call my family Sunday evening which would have been Sunday morning in Pennsylvania. Amy told me I could ride her bike since it was later in the evening and she would not need it. While I was talking to my mom and grandparents, the bike was stolen. The power went off twice, so the lady was busying rebooting the computers and was not at her desk at the front of the shop. When I left the cubical and started rambling in Khmer "Where is my bike?!?" she was as confused as I was. So I walked back to MCC. Usually motos are stolen, but bikes aren't exempt from that either. Today Amy will get a new bike...and helment, and it's nothing to worry about.
Happy New Year everyone!
Thursday Charles and I returned to Phnom Penh. I worked on my finacial report all day. Friday the single MCCers went to Kep on a singles retreat. Kep was a popular resort town on the coast from the colonials days until Pol Pot (1920s-1960/70s). While the old cement mansions and beach houses are still present, the houses are more ruins than habitable structures. But the ghost town feeling is not everywhere; the crab market is flourishing, there are boat rides to several islands in the bay, and several pepper farms and caves to visit. We stayed at a lovely resort where we stayed in private bungalows and had a fantastic view of the beach from the resturant. Overall, the weekend was very relaxing and fun with a healthy dose of pranks thrown in. And I can say I spent Christmas Eve at the beach, which in my opinion is much better than the VA or PA cold.
Christmas was nice, thought it felt more like a summer picnic with turkey. The MCCers, along with the Saudermans (China MCCers) and the Graber-Millers met at the Groff's house for the typical Christmas dinner-turkey, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, stuffing, etc. Andrea and I made pies for dessert- apple, pumpkin and coconut cream. After the meal, I got a chance to talk to Keith Graber-Miller who is head of the Goshen SST group coming next month. I put in a good word for them to send a student to Prey Veng for the six weeks the students will be working in the proviences. :) After a couple hours of talking, a volleyball game was started, though it was interesting to dodge the Cambodians who came over to jump on the Groff's trampoline. Later we played Oggle.
The most memorable part of the weekend was when I decided to call my family Sunday evening which would have been Sunday morning in Pennsylvania. Amy told me I could ride her bike since it was later in the evening and she would not need it. While I was talking to my mom and grandparents, the bike was stolen. The power went off twice, so the lady was busying rebooting the computers and was not at her desk at the front of the shop. When I left the cubical and started rambling in Khmer "Where is my bike?!?" she was as confused as I was. So I walked back to MCC. Usually motos are stolen, but bikes aren't exempt from that either. Today Amy will get a new bike...and helment, and it's nothing to worry about.
Happy New Year everyone!
Saturday, December 16, 2006
Yesterday we had the MCC staff Christmas Party at the Groff's house. The Cambodian staff brought their families and after eating curry and exchanging gifts, various games including volleyball and twister were going on. I had made chocolate and vanilla checkerboard cookies and the Cambodians really enjoyed them. They kept calling them saat, which means pretty in Khmer. The gift exchange was interesting too. Instead of the white elephant game that is usually played, each gift was assigned a number and the number you drew was the gift you got. When 31 was called, I received the standard rectangular box. Most people with the same shape box had gotten towels, but upon opening it, it was face whitening masks. Just what I needed! Now my host mother can be proud of me since my skin can be as pale as it was when I first arrived! I doubt the masks work because the main ingredients are green tea extract, chamamile and glycerin.
Despite the fact that is was a Christmas party, it felt more like a church picnic in the summer, or maybe a biligual family reunion. Either way, I feel like I have to re-examine Christmas by celebrating it in Cambodia.
All of the things I usually associate with Christmas- Advent in church, dinners, shopping for gifts, caroling, family gatherings, baking cookies, cold weather, and just the American commerialization of the holiday- all aren't really present here. Last night Charles and I went to the mall in PP just to see the decorations and maybe hear some Christmas music. While there were crowds and decorations, there wasn't any Christmas music playing. I know my last post was about wishing I was home for the holiday and this one is headed in that direction too, but I do. I think part of it is that I have been here for a 1 1/2 months now and lived with a Khmer family for 1 month and still am struggling with the language and starting to get bored in Prey Veng. My purpose is to learn the language and culture for 3 months. Sounds easy right? It would not be so bad if there was stuff to do for fun in Prey Veng. Aside from watching Cambodian TV with my host siblings, riding my bike, and going to the river front that is turning into a rice patty, there's not much to do. Don't get me wrong, I am enjoying my time here, but Cambodian recreation seems to be watching people go by and talking about food. Part of my frusteration is that Christmas at home is always a time to frenzy and excitement in preparation, while here I start a new book every other day.
This past weekend, Charles and I talked to the CRs about finding an office and they gave us the go ahead. I can't wait to have a computer to use instead of using the internet shop or going to the PP MCC office. And with an office, I can start reports and do something productive (by western standards).
Despite the fact that is was a Christmas party, it felt more like a church picnic in the summer, or maybe a biligual family reunion. Either way, I feel like I have to re-examine Christmas by celebrating it in Cambodia.
All of the things I usually associate with Christmas- Advent in church, dinners, shopping for gifts, caroling, family gatherings, baking cookies, cold weather, and just the American commerialization of the holiday- all aren't really present here. Last night Charles and I went to the mall in PP just to see the decorations and maybe hear some Christmas music. While there were crowds and decorations, there wasn't any Christmas music playing. I know my last post was about wishing I was home for the holiday and this one is headed in that direction too, but I do. I think part of it is that I have been here for a 1 1/2 months now and lived with a Khmer family for 1 month and still am struggling with the language and starting to get bored in Prey Veng. My purpose is to learn the language and culture for 3 months. Sounds easy right? It would not be so bad if there was stuff to do for fun in Prey Veng. Aside from watching Cambodian TV with my host siblings, riding my bike, and going to the river front that is turning into a rice patty, there's not much to do. Don't get me wrong, I am enjoying my time here, but Cambodian recreation seems to be watching people go by and talking about food. Part of my frusteration is that Christmas at home is always a time to frenzy and excitement in preparation, while here I start a new book every other day.
This past weekend, Charles and I talked to the CRs about finding an office and they gave us the go ahead. I can't wait to have a computer to use instead of using the internet shop or going to the PP MCC office. And with an office, I can start reports and do something productive (by western standards).
Saturday, December 09, 2006
Christmas Cookies!
I just read an email from Sherry asking each able MCCer to make some Christmas cookies for the MCC Christmas party next Saturday in Phnom Penh. I must say this is the first time I have been excited for Christmas this year.
Sunday evening when I returned from PP, I was alone in the house except my one host brother. Around 7:30 that night, I got rather homesick, mainly because I would be missing Christmas with my family and my Khmer family was not around to distract me from my rampant, exaggerated thoughts of never seeing my real family again or celebrating the holiday together. As the week wore on, I still had spurts of depression as I lamented the coming, joyous holiday. Christmas has always been one of my favorite holidays filled with baking cookies with my mom and delivering them to everyone we know (literally), family gatherings that turn into chaos with little kids under foot, way too much food, Christmas Eve services and hearing my grandfather read the Christmas story from Luke each year. I realized that the one event I would miss most is hearing my grandfather read the Christmas story.
(As a side note: He's a pretty amazing guy. This past summer he would introduce me to his fellow service workers, or just random people he knew, and would tell me to tell them what I was doing. His enthusiasm was like a child's delight whose eyes light up on Christmas morning. And this was all during a time when people kept asking me "Are you sure this is what you want to do?" and were not very supportive.)
Even though I know Christmas here is not going to be the same, I cannot let myself forget the true meaning of Christmas (clique I know). So if I can share my Christmas spirit by baking cookies (that is if someone lets me take over their kitchen in PP) , then by golly, I will. For the first time this season, I'm excited about Christmas in Cambodia.
I have a mouse living in my room. I can deal with getting pooped on by lizards and having them run across the room, birds making noises in the middle of the night, and the mosquitos (if you haven't heard, I have less than a dozen red itchy dots on my body now, that's down from the 2 1/2 dozen I had earlier), but not the mouse. He found my stash of Nutter Budders and pooped all over my second set of sheets. But I'm in Cambodia so maybe I should just name it (any suggestions?) and get on with life. I told my host family about it and they all laughed and repeated "Carol has a mouse in her room!" So much for their help. But, Charles and I have decided we are going to have a cat at the MCC office.
Beyond that, life has not been that exciting. I had a wonderful visit with Barb, an expat from England this afternoon. She is a midwife by trade and reminds me alot of my neighbor, Joyce, in the States. She mentioned several NGOs that I might be able to work with in the future, so despite not living on Foreigner Row, like Charles, I am starting to make some connections.
Sunday evening when I returned from PP, I was alone in the house except my one host brother. Around 7:30 that night, I got rather homesick, mainly because I would be missing Christmas with my family and my Khmer family was not around to distract me from my rampant, exaggerated thoughts of never seeing my real family again or celebrating the holiday together. As the week wore on, I still had spurts of depression as I lamented the coming, joyous holiday. Christmas has always been one of my favorite holidays filled with baking cookies with my mom and delivering them to everyone we know (literally), family gatherings that turn into chaos with little kids under foot, way too much food, Christmas Eve services and hearing my grandfather read the Christmas story from Luke each year. I realized that the one event I would miss most is hearing my grandfather read the Christmas story.
(As a side note: He's a pretty amazing guy. This past summer he would introduce me to his fellow service workers, or just random people he knew, and would tell me to tell them what I was doing. His enthusiasm was like a child's delight whose eyes light up on Christmas morning. And this was all during a time when people kept asking me "Are you sure this is what you want to do?" and were not very supportive.)
Even though I know Christmas here is not going to be the same, I cannot let myself forget the true meaning of Christmas (clique I know). So if I can share my Christmas spirit by baking cookies (that is if someone lets me take over their kitchen in PP) , then by golly, I will. For the first time this season, I'm excited about Christmas in Cambodia.
I have a mouse living in my room. I can deal with getting pooped on by lizards and having them run across the room, birds making noises in the middle of the night, and the mosquitos (if you haven't heard, I have less than a dozen red itchy dots on my body now, that's down from the 2 1/2 dozen I had earlier), but not the mouse. He found my stash of Nutter Budders and pooped all over my second set of sheets. But I'm in Cambodia so maybe I should just name it (any suggestions?) and get on with life. I told my host family about it and they all laughed and repeated "Carol has a mouse in her room!" So much for their help. But, Charles and I have decided we are going to have a cat at the MCC office.
Beyond that, life has not been that exciting. I had a wonderful visit with Barb, an expat from England this afternoon. She is a midwife by trade and reminds me alot of my neighbor, Joyce, in the States. She mentioned several NGOs that I might be able to work with in the future, so despite not living on Foreigner Row, like Charles, I am starting to make some connections.
Friday, December 01, 2006
Back in Phnom Penh
Charles and I came back to Phnom Penh for a visit this weekend. Yesterday we took the 6 am bus from Prey Veng to Phnom Penh and arrived around 8:30. The bus was somewhat crowded, but since it was early in the morning, it wasn't so hot.
Since I have been eating rice at least twice a day, sometimes three times (that's over my limit), Charles and I went to a western coffeeshop for lunch. I had a baked potato that was divine. Since the Russian market was a block away, we stopped there and I bought another pair of capris. On the way back, I had a little incident. Charles and I had borrowed bikes from the MCC office to go for lunch. Since the traffice in Phnom Penh is much busier than Prey Veng I was staying very close to the right side of the road. Another cyclist decided to come up behind me on the ride side and sideswipe me so that I lost my balance and jammed my toe. It could have been alot worse, but it still alarmed me. Right then, I wanted to go back to Prey Veng and never come back! I made it back to the office and propped my foot up. It's only a little sore and black and blue. But now I think it's hilarious because this is the same toe that Kelley (accidently) rammed a couch into last August and my toenail has finally grown back.
Today I am going on a cyclo tour of downtown along with some other MCCers. It should be enjoyable.
Since I have been eating rice at least twice a day, sometimes three times (that's over my limit), Charles and I went to a western coffeeshop for lunch. I had a baked potato that was divine. Since the Russian market was a block away, we stopped there and I bought another pair of capris. On the way back, I had a little incident. Charles and I had borrowed bikes from the MCC office to go for lunch. Since the traffice in Phnom Penh is much busier than Prey Veng I was staying very close to the right side of the road. Another cyclist decided to come up behind me on the ride side and sideswipe me so that I lost my balance and jammed my toe. It could have been alot worse, but it still alarmed me. Right then, I wanted to go back to Prey Veng and never come back! I made it back to the office and propped my foot up. It's only a little sore and black and blue. But now I think it's hilarious because this is the same toe that Kelley (accidently) rammed a couch into last August and my toenail has finally grown back.
Today I am going on a cyclo tour of downtown along with some other MCCers. It should be enjoyable.
Tuesday, November 28, 2006
Prey Veng
I have now lived in Prey Veng Town for one week, and what a week it has been! As there is no way I could even try to cover all of the events of the past week, I will try to post the highlights.
First, I am definately feeling the brunt of being the only young, single, white girl (key word white) in the village. Every day my host family tells me how beautiful I am because of my white skin. Ming, which means aunt (it's what I call my host mother), loves to touch it and look at me. It still unerves me to have people stare at me just because I am white. As a result, I have been pondering the many reasons why it's not so great to be white, and then I think of all of the harm and injustice people with the same skin as me have caused to those with darker skin. The French were once the oppressors here and in America, well, need I mention it? Frankly, it depresses me.
As I was unpacking, Jendai, my host sister, was helped me hang up my clothes when she causually said, you have nice clothes. Later, I realized that her comment embarrased me. Every article of clothing I brought carried a brand name and was made in a foriegn country in a garmet factory. My host family is rather affluent and definately middle class. They all wear gold jewelery and have a large, clean comfortable house with western toliets. But their clothes don't have name brands, even though they are clean and somewhat stylish. But I have realized the utter wealth I have. I could never tell my family everyone in my immediate family has his or her own car, or that we have air conditioning and two fridges and a deep freeze for they have none of these luxeries. However, I see the positives in their lifestyle too. Riding a bike is much more convienent on narrow roads and keeps everyone in shape. I appreciate the cool breezes in the afternoon and enjoy taking three showers a day. Everything we eat is fresh from the market.
Communication is my biggest hurdle. I only know rudimentary Khmer and when I try to convey a thought to Ming, she usually doesn't understand. Her nephew who lives across the street speaks fluent English so she usually calls him to translate. This is very frusterating to me because I want to speak Khmer, not English. However, I have been able to help with the dishes and make dinner. I am trying to learn how to cook the Cambodian dishes she makes, but alot of the ingredients are foriegn to the American cook. But Ming is a wonderful cook and I have liked everything she has made so far. I have also noticed that I get the biggest serving of rice at dinner. The 17 year old son is probably half the size of me and eats maybe a third of what I eat. But there is always plenty of food.
Um, what else? Charles and I have been trying various resturants in town for breakfast. The traditional breakfast here is noodle soup with bean sprouts, liver, intestines, and chopped meat in it. The best I have had is here in Prey Veng. Also, the iced coffee, sweetened with sweetened consendsed milk, is very delicious. The other option is french bread and fruit from the market.
Life has still been interesting. Jendai and I were followed by the police Sunday afternoon because they wanted to know who this white girl was and why she was here. They told Ming they wanted a copy of my passport and visa. Unfortunately, I didn't have a copy of my visa because all of the important duties, such as photocopying it, were not done by those responsible to do them in Phnom Penh. So finally, they left with a copy of my passport and said they would return. I have definately sugarcoated this version of the story because I was terrified. I couldn't understand what was being talked about and Ming's reactions were not positive to the men. But, I was not taken to the police station which was their orginial plan, or deported as I thought I would be. But since then life has been its usual self.
First, I am definately feeling the brunt of being the only young, single, white girl (key word white) in the village. Every day my host family tells me how beautiful I am because of my white skin. Ming, which means aunt (it's what I call my host mother), loves to touch it and look at me. It still unerves me to have people stare at me just because I am white. As a result, I have been pondering the many reasons why it's not so great to be white, and then I think of all of the harm and injustice people with the same skin as me have caused to those with darker skin. The French were once the oppressors here and in America, well, need I mention it? Frankly, it depresses me.
As I was unpacking, Jendai, my host sister, was helped me hang up my clothes when she causually said, you have nice clothes. Later, I realized that her comment embarrased me. Every article of clothing I brought carried a brand name and was made in a foriegn country in a garmet factory. My host family is rather affluent and definately middle class. They all wear gold jewelery and have a large, clean comfortable house with western toliets. But their clothes don't have name brands, even though they are clean and somewhat stylish. But I have realized the utter wealth I have. I could never tell my family everyone in my immediate family has his or her own car, or that we have air conditioning and two fridges and a deep freeze for they have none of these luxeries. However, I see the positives in their lifestyle too. Riding a bike is much more convienent on narrow roads and keeps everyone in shape. I appreciate the cool breezes in the afternoon and enjoy taking three showers a day. Everything we eat is fresh from the market.
Communication is my biggest hurdle. I only know rudimentary Khmer and when I try to convey a thought to Ming, she usually doesn't understand. Her nephew who lives across the street speaks fluent English so she usually calls him to translate. This is very frusterating to me because I want to speak Khmer, not English. However, I have been able to help with the dishes and make dinner. I am trying to learn how to cook the Cambodian dishes she makes, but alot of the ingredients are foriegn to the American cook. But Ming is a wonderful cook and I have liked everything she has made so far. I have also noticed that I get the biggest serving of rice at dinner. The 17 year old son is probably half the size of me and eats maybe a third of what I eat. But there is always plenty of food.
Um, what else? Charles and I have been trying various resturants in town for breakfast. The traditional breakfast here is noodle soup with bean sprouts, liver, intestines, and chopped meat in it. The best I have had is here in Prey Veng. Also, the iced coffee, sweetened with sweetened consendsed milk, is very delicious. The other option is french bread and fruit from the market.
Life has still been interesting. Jendai and I were followed by the police Sunday afternoon because they wanted to know who this white girl was and why she was here. They told Ming they wanted a copy of my passport and visa. Unfortunately, I didn't have a copy of my visa because all of the important duties, such as photocopying it, were not done by those responsible to do them in Phnom Penh. So finally, they left with a copy of my passport and said they would return. I have definately sugarcoated this version of the story because I was terrified. I couldn't understand what was being talked about and Ming's reactions were not positive to the men. But, I was not taken to the police station which was their orginial plan, or deported as I thought I would be. But since then life has been its usual self.
Thursday, November 16, 2006
Missing PB
Charles bought a jar of peanut butter at Lucky Market (a western store) Monday evening and enjoyed a slice of peanut butter toast for breakfast the next day. However, the peanut butter has now been lost. Abandoned on a table, the peanut butter has found a new home. But 'where' is the question of the week. But since Charles and I were leaving random gifts in other MCCers' mailboxes, prehaps this is payback.
Aside from the peanut butter, this week has been going very well. Tuesday evening, some of us took a lovely boat ride on the Mekong. It was Doug's parents' and sister's last night here so they rented a boat and invited Elijah, Amy and me along.
Yesterday I started the vaccination series for Japanese Encephalitis and rabies, yet the shots were the adventurous part. I rode Amy's bike to the doctor's office which was 262-B. None of the numbers here are in accending order, so when I got to the house that said 262, I stopped. The gate was locked so I shook it and this kid, about 9 or 10, came to the door. He smiled and I was dumbstruck. I showed him the business card I had, and pointed down the street. After asking him how far and finding out it was three houses down, I thanked him and left. He was still smiling by the time I left, even though I know he was laughing at the ignorant American. After arriving at the correct place, I took a seat and noticed the young couple with an infant, teenage boy, and nun in the waiting room. The nun started asking me where I was from and why I was here... the common questions most people have. Needless to say she never heard of Mennonites before and explaining I was moving to Prey Veng to eventually work in something related to health didn't go so well either. So she started asking me if, along with my companions, I went out at night. I replied I didn't. She was very glad to hear that; it's not safe at night, especially on a bicycle. I found out she had lived in Cambodia for about 6 years, but not her nationality. Reflecting on this experience, I strive to be more like this nun. Not that I plan to take a vow of chastity to the Catholic church, but that eventually I can encourage others whom come to better a fellow human's life. Even though she didn't understand why I was here, she still welcomed me and offered a conversation.
On, a different note, I'm frusterated with the language study. I deeply want to learn Khmer, but I'm having issues with the tutor in here in Phnom Penh. He is a wonderful man, but I'm not adhering to his method of teaching. For one, we are reading the phonetics, not the Khmer script; since I am a visual learner, I'm afraid I'll have difficulty learning the script later. But, when I move in with my host family on Tuesday, I will be able to practice the language more. I also plan to start learning the Khmer alphabet in Prey Veng. It's very frusterating to be illerate in Khmer. I have always taken being able to read for granted and never realized how much I depend on/enjoy reading.
On a lighter note, I found a book in the library, The Cambodia Less Traveled by Ray Zepp, that included a section on Prey Veng Town. Under 'The Lure of Prey Veng' (pg 71) two parts stuck out to me. One had to do with Prey Veng Town having lots of snakes. Uck! Being a biology major in college should have cured me of this, but I can't even stand to see a snake preserved in formaldehyde. The other part went like this: "On the negative side, I had originally planned to go there with my neighbor, but his father forbade him from going because Prey Veng was too dangerous for a lone foreigner- too many 'grangsters,' he said." The book was published 10 years ago, and I'm not frightened. Like the nun told me, it's not safe on a bike at night, and if you use common sense (Yes, Danny I realized common sense is learned) usually you'll be fine.
Aside from the peanut butter, this week has been going very well. Tuesday evening, some of us took a lovely boat ride on the Mekong. It was Doug's parents' and sister's last night here so they rented a boat and invited Elijah, Amy and me along.
Yesterday I started the vaccination series for Japanese Encephalitis and rabies, yet the shots were the adventurous part. I rode Amy's bike to the doctor's office which was 262-B. None of the numbers here are in accending order, so when I got to the house that said 262, I stopped. The gate was locked so I shook it and this kid, about 9 or 10, came to the door. He smiled and I was dumbstruck. I showed him the business card I had, and pointed down the street. After asking him how far and finding out it was three houses down, I thanked him and left. He was still smiling by the time I left, even though I know he was laughing at the ignorant American. After arriving at the correct place, I took a seat and noticed the young couple with an infant, teenage boy, and nun in the waiting room. The nun started asking me where I was from and why I was here... the common questions most people have. Needless to say she never heard of Mennonites before and explaining I was moving to Prey Veng to eventually work in something related to health didn't go so well either. So she started asking me if, along with my companions, I went out at night. I replied I didn't. She was very glad to hear that; it's not safe at night, especially on a bicycle. I found out she had lived in Cambodia for about 6 years, but not her nationality. Reflecting on this experience, I strive to be more like this nun. Not that I plan to take a vow of chastity to the Catholic church, but that eventually I can encourage others whom come to better a fellow human's life. Even though she didn't understand why I was here, she still welcomed me and offered a conversation.
On, a different note, I'm frusterated with the language study. I deeply want to learn Khmer, but I'm having issues with the tutor in here in Phnom Penh. He is a wonderful man, but I'm not adhering to his method of teaching. For one, we are reading the phonetics, not the Khmer script; since I am a visual learner, I'm afraid I'll have difficulty learning the script later. But, when I move in with my host family on Tuesday, I will be able to practice the language more. I also plan to start learning the Khmer alphabet in Prey Veng. It's very frusterating to be illerate in Khmer. I have always taken being able to read for granted and never realized how much I depend on/enjoy reading.
On a lighter note, I found a book in the library, The Cambodia Less Traveled by Ray Zepp, that included a section on Prey Veng Town. Under 'The Lure of Prey Veng' (pg 71) two parts stuck out to me. One had to do with Prey Veng Town having lots of snakes. Uck! Being a biology major in college should have cured me of this, but I can't even stand to see a snake preserved in formaldehyde. The other part went like this: "On the negative side, I had originally planned to go there with my neighbor, but his father forbade him from going because Prey Veng was too dangerous for a lone foreigner- too many 'grangsters,' he said." The book was published 10 years ago, and I'm not frightened. Like the nun told me, it's not safe on a bike at night, and if you use common sense (Yes, Danny I realized common sense is learned) usually you'll be fine.
Sunday, November 12, 2006
Weekend
I have been to three church services in the past 24 hours. Saturday evening I went to a Catholic mass, but with the international flair it didn't see all Catholic to me. Since it was a Marionols (I'm sure this is mispelled) service, it was also different from the mainstream church. Ben told me the Marionols are the Mennonites of the Catholic world. Apparently they stress the peace aspect of faith as well. The second service I attended was the Phnom Penh Mennonite Church that EMM started. This service was completely in Khmer, so I only understood the numbers when they were called. And this was the longest service, lasting just over 2 hours. Amy and I decided to give it a try and from what I understood, I enjoyed it. About 60 people attend the church regularly and about a third talked to either Amy or me after the service. We met two previous IVEPers and students from the Phnom Penh Bible College. The last service was this afternoon at the World Vision building, International Christian Fellowship. This service, which the majority of the MCCers attend, is probably the closest to a service in the States that I would attend. We sang praise and worship with a keyboard and a sermon on contentment based on Philippians 4.
After Catholic mass yesterday evening, Ben, Amy, Charles, and I went to a benefit concert for a Cambodian NGO that trains disabled persons to repair electrical equipment to earn a living. A very animated Canadian played several pieces on the piano-jazz, classical, spunky stuff- and talked. It's rather hard to explain this man; his name is Arnie and full of zany energy and spunk. In addition to him, several Cambodians played traditional instraments while a couple sang traditional wedding songs. It was a delightful experience. But I'm not sure I'll have the same opportunities for concerts and cultural events in Prey Veng as I have here in Phnom Penh. But who knows?
After Catholic mass yesterday evening, Ben, Amy, Charles, and I went to a benefit concert for a Cambodian NGO that trains disabled persons to repair electrical equipment to earn a living. A very animated Canadian played several pieces on the piano-jazz, classical, spunky stuff- and talked. It's rather hard to explain this man; his name is Arnie and full of zany energy and spunk. In addition to him, several Cambodians played traditional instraments while a couple sang traditional wedding songs. It was a delightful experience. But I'm not sure I'll have the same opportunities for concerts and cultural events in Prey Veng as I have here in Phnom Penh. But who knows?
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
First Impressions of Prey Veng Town
Today Larry, Nicole, Elijah, Charles, Seiha (a Cambodian who works for MCC and is getting married in January) and I went to Prey Veng Town. I met 4 other foreigners (2 from England, 2 from Singapore), Charles' host family and my host family. Personally, I think my home stay will go very well and is a perfect match. I have my own bedroom and bathroom...with a real toliet, not a quat-er like most of the bathrooms have! I will live on the bottom floor next to the kitchen, dining room, and storage room. Rest of the family lives on the second floor which has a bathroom, 3 bedrooms, living room and porch. The father worked for MCC in the past in Phnom Penh and is currently working on his MBA. The mother is a second grade teacher and even gave us guava fruit from their trees. They have 3 children- 16, 15, and 10- but they were at school so I didn't meet them. The family owns a few verdant acres which house mango, guava, and other trees.
Prey Veng is a cute little town. It's next to a river (I think Mekong, but don't quote me on that) and is quiet and peaceful. The picturesque rice feilds along with the palm trees swaying in the cool breeze is relaxing and the homey atmosphere of the town excites me about living there. I am enjoying Phnom Penh, but I'm not used to living in large cities, Prey Veng Town is much more my style. And I must say there was a wave of relief on my part as the day progressed. The family seems wonderful and the place is clean. Sometimes it seems like dust and dirt can travel anywhere, despite your strongest efforts to contain it.
I will move to Prey Veng on Nov. 21. Language tutors are still being set up and I will get a bicycle when Sherry brings us to Prey Veng. I took some pictures today and hope to have them up on a website soon. I'll let you know when this happens.
When I left America I was still very apprehensive about this whole thing. I felt too many details weren't settled yet and basically didn't know what my purpose here would be. But as I meet my host family and see truly how beautiful Prey Veng is, I know I can success and flourish here. I'm learning the language and was able to greet my host parents in Khmer and thank her for the guava. I'm taking small steps, but I know I'm headed in the right direction.
Prey Veng is a cute little town. It's next to a river (I think Mekong, but don't quote me on that) and is quiet and peaceful. The picturesque rice feilds along with the palm trees swaying in the cool breeze is relaxing and the homey atmosphere of the town excites me about living there. I am enjoying Phnom Penh, but I'm not used to living in large cities, Prey Veng Town is much more my style. And I must say there was a wave of relief on my part as the day progressed. The family seems wonderful and the place is clean. Sometimes it seems like dust and dirt can travel anywhere, despite your strongest efforts to contain it.
I will move to Prey Veng on Nov. 21. Language tutors are still being set up and I will get a bicycle when Sherry brings us to Prey Veng. I took some pictures today and hope to have them up on a website soon. I'll let you know when this happens.
When I left America I was still very apprehensive about this whole thing. I felt too many details weren't settled yet and basically didn't know what my purpose here would be. But as I meet my host family and see truly how beautiful Prey Veng is, I know I can success and flourish here. I'm learning the language and was able to greet my host parents in Khmer and thank her for the guava. I'm taking small steps, but I know I'm headed in the right direction.
Monday, November 06, 2006
Intros and such
I will begin with introductions so for now on you know who I am talking about.
I mentioned Sherry picked us up at the airport. She and her husband Larry are the co-Country Representatives. Their house is several blocks away from the MCC office and it houses a cat, a dog, a goat, a monkey, 2 turkeys, and 2 guinea hens along with their two teenage children, Tyler and Nicole. Nicole is somewhat quiet, yet the more I see her, the friendlier she is. Tyler is on a trip to Egypt with his school and will return next week.
Ben is the MCCer who met us at the airport. He is shorter than I expected but the most helpful person I have talked to so far. He helped set up my host family in Prey Veng (whom I meet tomorrow on our first trip to Prey Veng) and since he had a difficult home stay, I trust his judgement. However, his term is over in February.
Elijah is fluent in Khmer and is probably one of the most outgoing of the MCCers. Everyone in Akron told me he picked up Khmer quickly, and they were right. He is not learning Chinese as he plans to go to China after his term is over in later next year. He also has a dislike for feline creatures.
Amy is the SALTer who works at a local university teaching English. She is friendly and I had several intersting converstations with her over the weekend. She has been here for 2 1/2 months and is on vacation with Andrea this week to the NW corner of the country where waterfalls and hiking trails flourish.
Andrea came as a SALTer, but continued on with a three year term. I haven't had much interaction with her, though Bud and Sheri said we would get along very well.
The Sanderval family consists of Julie, Robert and their three children, Bobby (late teens), Tatina, and Selah (both under 10, I think). Julie is working with 10 Thousand Villages to get Cambodian handicrafts into the stores in NA. She showed me some leafshaped earrings with the word peace in Khmer written on it; I would buy them.
Seina spent the past year as an IVEPer in Ohio. Now she is in the process of creating her own library. She is extremely friendly and her laughter is contagious.
The Graber-Neufeld family is also here. My former prof, Doug, is teaching at a local university. However, I have not seen them yet since they are currently on vacation in Vietnam.
Oh, and there's Charles. He is the rural agriculture advisor and will be in Prey Veng with me. He is very easy to spot in a crowd of Cambodians because he stands about a foot above them. So far, we have gotten along very well in that we are both in this transition stage. He has also been to Vietnam.
There are also some other Cambodian staff members I have not met yet. This past weekend was the annual water festival. One of the two largest festivals, it celebrates the end of the rainy season and the arrival of the cooler winds. Saturday Elijah, Ben, Amy, and Emily (Elijah's friend from college who is currently teaching in Manila) took Charles and I to the festival. On the Tonle Sap River, boats race once per day until the winner is annouced. Because of the holiday the MCC offices are closed and it's been rather quiet around here.
Sunday we went to Sihanoukville where we visited a ship, M.V. Doulos. This boat goes around and docks at ports all over the country selling mainly discounted Christian books, CDs, and tapes. It also had cookbooks, nature books, and medical reference books. However, I just came from American and have no need of any of these things. Before visiting the ship we went to the beach where I read the latest Newsweek and the local Phnom Penh paper in English. There were two interesting articles in the latter paper, one on fake drugs and the other on unsafe DYI abortions preformed in rural areas.
Yesterday Charles and I started language study. Our tutor (his name slips my mind at this point) is a short, older man full of forgiveness. The first phrase I learned was 'Good Day Sir.'' I would try to type it in the Khmer alphabet (this keyboard has both English and Khmer characters on it) but I do not know how to switch between them. I now know the numbers up to 1000 and common greetings as well as how to get from point A to point B. But after the second class I am still a little shaky on the pronounciation. Our classes focus mainly on the spoken word. Reading comes later after the alphabet is learned.
Last night the Groffs took Charles and I out to a Thai/Khmer resturant that was probably the best food I've had since I was here. We had stir fried pork and pineapple, chicken with cashew nuts, green curry, dandilion weeds, and of course rice. It was better than the curry soup I got on Saturday that had a hunk of congealed blood in it. (I didn't eat the blood). Charles keeps telling me the food is better in Vietnam (Dan Wessner would be proud), but I think it's good. But if any of you get the courage (and money) to come visit, you could decide for yourself.
I mentioned Sherry picked us up at the airport. She and her husband Larry are the co-Country Representatives. Their house is several blocks away from the MCC office and it houses a cat, a dog, a goat, a monkey, 2 turkeys, and 2 guinea hens along with their two teenage children, Tyler and Nicole. Nicole is somewhat quiet, yet the more I see her, the friendlier she is. Tyler is on a trip to Egypt with his school and will return next week.
Ben is the MCCer who met us at the airport. He is shorter than I expected but the most helpful person I have talked to so far. He helped set up my host family in Prey Veng (whom I meet tomorrow on our first trip to Prey Veng) and since he had a difficult home stay, I trust his judgement. However, his term is over in February.
Elijah is fluent in Khmer and is probably one of the most outgoing of the MCCers. Everyone in Akron told me he picked up Khmer quickly, and they were right. He is not learning Chinese as he plans to go to China after his term is over in later next year. He also has a dislike for feline creatures.
Amy is the SALTer who works at a local university teaching English. She is friendly and I had several intersting converstations with her over the weekend. She has been here for 2 1/2 months and is on vacation with Andrea this week to the NW corner of the country where waterfalls and hiking trails flourish.
Andrea came as a SALTer, but continued on with a three year term. I haven't had much interaction with her, though Bud and Sheri said we would get along very well.
The Sanderval family consists of Julie, Robert and their three children, Bobby (late teens), Tatina, and Selah (both under 10, I think). Julie is working with 10 Thousand Villages to get Cambodian handicrafts into the stores in NA. She showed me some leafshaped earrings with the word peace in Khmer written on it; I would buy them.
Seina spent the past year as an IVEPer in Ohio. Now she is in the process of creating her own library. She is extremely friendly and her laughter is contagious.
The Graber-Neufeld family is also here. My former prof, Doug, is teaching at a local university. However, I have not seen them yet since they are currently on vacation in Vietnam.
Oh, and there's Charles. He is the rural agriculture advisor and will be in Prey Veng with me. He is very easy to spot in a crowd of Cambodians because he stands about a foot above them. So far, we have gotten along very well in that we are both in this transition stage. He has also been to Vietnam.
There are also some other Cambodian staff members I have not met yet. This past weekend was the annual water festival. One of the two largest festivals, it celebrates the end of the rainy season and the arrival of the cooler winds. Saturday Elijah, Ben, Amy, and Emily (Elijah's friend from college who is currently teaching in Manila) took Charles and I to the festival. On the Tonle Sap River, boats race once per day until the winner is annouced. Because of the holiday the MCC offices are closed and it's been rather quiet around here.
Sunday we went to Sihanoukville where we visited a ship, M.V. Doulos. This boat goes around and docks at ports all over the country selling mainly discounted Christian books, CDs, and tapes. It also had cookbooks, nature books, and medical reference books. However, I just came from American and have no need of any of these things. Before visiting the ship we went to the beach where I read the latest Newsweek and the local Phnom Penh paper in English. There were two interesting articles in the latter paper, one on fake drugs and the other on unsafe DYI abortions preformed in rural areas.
Yesterday Charles and I started language study. Our tutor (his name slips my mind at this point) is a short, older man full of forgiveness. The first phrase I learned was 'Good Day Sir.'' I would try to type it in the Khmer alphabet (this keyboard has both English and Khmer characters on it) but I do not know how to switch between them. I now know the numbers up to 1000 and common greetings as well as how to get from point A to point B. But after the second class I am still a little shaky on the pronounciation. Our classes focus mainly on the spoken word. Reading comes later after the alphabet is learned.
Last night the Groffs took Charles and I out to a Thai/Khmer resturant that was probably the best food I've had since I was here. We had stir fried pork and pineapple, chicken with cashew nuts, green curry, dandilion weeds, and of course rice. It was better than the curry soup I got on Saturday that had a hunk of congealed blood in it. (I didn't eat the blood). Charles keeps telling me the food is better in Vietnam (Dan Wessner would be proud), but I think it's good. But if any of you get the courage (and money) to come visit, you could decide for yourself.
Friday, November 03, 2006
I need sleep...
Despite sleeping for about 9.5 hours, I still feel like I need some more sleep. In Singapore, I didn't sleep at all during the 13 hour layover but instead wandered the airport with Charles. I must say, the Singapore Changi Airport must be one of the nicest ones I've been to. It even had 4 different gardens to visit. However, once I sat down on the plane to Phnom Penh, I fell fast asleep, even before takeoff. I woke to a stewardess shaking and asking me if I wanted fish or chicken.
Sherry, one of the country representatives, and Ben, another MCCer, met us at the airport. I got my visa and got through customs without much difficulty. The truck ride to the MCC office and guesthouse was the typical third world ride. And I must say, from what I saw of Phnom Penh last night, I wasn't too impressed. It looks the same as any other, um how to I word this, capital city that has had a crushed ecomony and been devistated by war (directly or indirectly) caused by the good ole USA.
However, the MCC office is nicer than what I expected. The library is nicely furnished and my room is the guesthouse is wonderful. I'll be here for about two weeks. Wednesday we are going to visit Prey Veng town and meet our host families. The following week we will move to Prey Veng and live with host families for 1 to 3 months. Then I can decide if I want to continue living with the family or find a room or appartment to live in. Language study will begin Monday.
It's now 7:20 am. Elijah will not come until 8 or 8:30 to walk with us to Larry and Sherry's house for breakfast. Unfortuately I have been hungry since I woke up. Until next time...
Sherry, one of the country representatives, and Ben, another MCCer, met us at the airport. I got my visa and got through customs without much difficulty. The truck ride to the MCC office and guesthouse was the typical third world ride. And I must say, from what I saw of Phnom Penh last night, I wasn't too impressed. It looks the same as any other, um how to I word this, capital city that has had a crushed ecomony and been devistated by war (directly or indirectly) caused by the good ole USA.
However, the MCC office is nicer than what I expected. The library is nicely furnished and my room is the guesthouse is wonderful. I'll be here for about two weeks. Wednesday we are going to visit Prey Veng town and meet our host families. The following week we will move to Prey Veng and live with host families for 1 to 3 months. Then I can decide if I want to continue living with the family or find a room or appartment to live in. Language study will begin Monday.
It's now 7:20 am. Elijah will not come until 8 or 8:30 to walk with us to Larry and Sherry's house for breakfast. Unfortuately I have been hungry since I woke up. Until next time...
Thursday, November 02, 2006
I'm in Singapore!
Yes, I have survived the horrid 20 hour flight from Chicago here. And at 4:30 pm I'll get on a plane to Phnom Penh. It's about 2:30 am here right now. I just read everyone's emails that they sent me. Thank you so much! I've been a little stressed with this whole trip and that was teh enouragement I needed. This computer is going to kick me off soon and I heard there's a swimming pool in the airport so I'll talk to ya'll later!
Carol
Carol
Tuesday, October 31, 2006
Welcome!
Welcome to my Blog. I will leave tomorrow morning at 4:30 am for my three year assignment in Prey Veng provience as a rural health advisor. While, I'm not sure what the next era in my life entails, you are welcome to join me in learning, listening and experiencing the trials and joys of my journey.
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